Virtus Daily Blog #70 - Are we ever ready?
Are we ever truly ready for who or what we want to become?
We all have an image in our minds of how we want our life to pan out.
Sometimes down to the most minute details.
But does it ever really go to plan?
Are we ready if it does?
Are we ready if it doesn't?
We can prepare ourselves as best we can,
This much is true,
But as we have never been in that situation before it has actually happened, we will never truly be ready.
We need to be okay with never being truly ready.
As someone who struggled (NOT ANYMORE!) with anxiety, I found the need to always be in control and ready for anything, which was exhausting, I was tired all the time.
Thinking about all the possible outcomes and planning every solution possible is exhausting.
And the worst thing is?
You will never cover every possible outcome and solution.
So give yourself a break!
Take it easy and trust in yourself.
Trust that you can handle anything that life throws at you.
Trust that you are prepared for life, with the flexibility that you can adapt and evolve and learn from all the experiences that life has to offer.
Life is one big learning curve and one big lesson.
If you to be prepared for everything, you have nothing to learn.
You cannot evolve and you cannot better yourself.